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So you think your child is safe in their bedroom and other lies we tell ourselves as parents co-parenting conversations with kids cyberbullying cybersafety device safety device safety 101 devices explicit content online online grooming online safety parent resources parents pornography Apr 18, 2025

There's a comforting lie we love to wrap ourselves in as parents:

"They’re home. They’re in their room. They’re safe."

It’s the lie that lets us exhale after a long day. The lie that soothes the part of us desperate to believe we’ve done enough. But what if that lie is the very thing putting our k...

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So your child saw something explicit online... now what? conversations with kids device safety devices explicit content illegal content inappropriate content keeping kids safe online online safety parents pornography teachable moments Apr 03, 2025

It’s the moment every parent dreads. Your child comes to you - or worse, you discover—that they’ve seen something explicit online. Maybe it was pornographic content, a violent video, or something just deeply inappropriate for their age. Your stomach drops. Your heart races. And suddenly, you’re stan...

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Setting up your child's new device for safety and success adults advice child abuse prevention child safety children device safety device safety 101 devices kids online safety smartphones teens twees Nov 18, 2024

Setting up your child’s new smartphone or device for success and safety

Whether it’s your child’s first phone or their next device, it is super important that we don’t give our kids a smartphone or device with access to every danger on the internet, without putting up some guardrails and protectiv...

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3 things I wouldn't do after being a Child Abuse Detective adults advice body safety child safety inappropriate content online safety parenting parents police safe adults Oct 07, 2024

I’m going to be honest with you all…I have some regrets. 

If you haven’t read or heard my story, I joined the police when my daughter was just shy of 2 years old and became a detective not long after she turned 6 years old. 

I heard and saw A LOT of things that have fundamentally changed me as a p...

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Should I be sharing photos of my kids online? adults child protection child safety kids online safety parent resources parenting May 26, 2024

Parent Question - Hi there, my wife and I are looking for some guidance in relation to supporting our two young children from potential adverse consequences from sharing their photos online.

We are stuck as to what is appropriate when there is no general rules for whether it's safe to share their ph...

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What is in or out in 2024 child protection child safety children cyberbullying inappropriate content online safety parenting parents safe adults teens Jan 03, 2024

Thought I'd jump in with my own thoughts on what's 'IN & OUT' in parenting in 2024.

What we (society/parents) have done in the past when it comes to child safety isn't ALL bad, however, it's TIME TO CHANGE the future of child safety!!!

This requires us to be brave and boldly face the problem. ...

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I was a child abuse detective and my daughter was still exposed to porn at 10yo advice child abuse prevention child protection child safety illegal content online safety pornography Nov 14, 2023

My daughter was exposed to pornography for the first time at 10yo. Sadly, she is the ‘norm’ NOT the exception in these statistics.

Embarrassingly, I was a child abuse detective with over 8-years experience in the Child Sexual Abuse space at the time it happened.

I had already had the 'sex' talk an...

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Why does our mental health matter when it comes to protecting your child from abuse? advice child abuse prevention child protection child safety mental health online safety parenting Oct 10, 2023
It’s Mental Health week…
 
So why does our mental health matter when it comes to protecting our child from abuse?
 
LOTS! ⬆️⬆️⬆️
 
When we aren’t coping or we are in crisis, our kids are inadvertently exposed and at risk.
 
It’s imperative that as parents we prioritise our mental
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What to do if... your child sees illegal content online? child abuse children illegal content inappropriate content online safety pornography teens tweens what to do if Jul 16, 2023

TRIGGER WARNING - THIS BLOG POST CONTAINS THE DISCUSSION OF CHILD ABUSE MATERIAL! 

I had a young person contact me yesterday asking for HELP. 

The young person had been shared a link to a website in which they were pressured to open and look at on insistence from 'friends'. 

The website contained...

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5 things you should discuss before your child gets a phone child protection cyberbullying online grooming online safety May 27, 2023

A lot of parents haven't considered the potential implications that a phone or device can have on your child's safety and development before they are gifted or given one. 

Not because they don't care about those issues but more so because the things that may or may not effect a child's safety are n...

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Why do kids talk to strangers online child abuse child protection online grooming online safety May 27, 2023

Kids talking to strangers online is a seriously scary thought for some parents and not much of a consideration for others. 

As a parent, we often don't understand or realise the risks in a child or teens need to engage and communicate with someone not known to them in real life.  Even with educatio...

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Supervision vs Oversight - what is the difference? cyberbullying online grooming online safety May 27, 2023

Noun: Supervision - the act of supervising something or someone

Noun: Oversight - the action of overseeing something

When it comes to your child's online activities, it is highly recommended by both police, world wide law enforcement agencies, child protection agencies and online safety profession...

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