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Top 5 Book Resources every parent needs body safety book resources books child abuse prevention child safety consent consent education healthy relationships kids parent resources parenting parents puberty sex ed sexual health Jan 24, 2024

Books are the ultimate life hack when it comes to parenting.

However, there are so many good books out there that it gets a tad overwhelming to know which ones are actually helpfulĀ and useful for what purpose.Ā 

Let me make your life a little easier by providing 5 books that will help you in your ...

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What is in or out in 2024 child protection child safety children cyberbullying inappropriate content online safety parenting parents safe adults teens Jan 03, 2024

Thought I'd jump in with my own thoughts on what's 'IN & OUT' in parenting in 2024.

What we (society/parents) have done in the past when it comes to child safety isn't ALL bad, however, it's TIME TO CHANGE the future of child safety!!!

This requires us to be brave and boldly face the problem. ...

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What makes someone a safe adult? adults advice behaviours child abuse prevention child safety kids parenting parents safe adults safe behaviours teens Dec 13, 2023

Have you ever contemplated this question before?Ā You would be surprised at the number of people whoĀ haven't.Ā 

It's probably because it's not something our parents openly discussed, it's not something we have grown up discussing and it's not something we have been asked to analyse in our own lives. ...

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I was a child abuse detective and my daughter was still exposed to porn at 10yo advice child abuse prevention child protection child safety illegal content online safety pornography Nov 14, 2023

My daughter was exposed to pornography for the first time at 10yo. Sadly, she is the ā€˜norm’ NOT the exception in these statistics.

Embarrassingly, I was a child abuse detective with over 8-years experience in the Child Sexual Abuse space at the time it happened.

I had already had the 'sex' talk an...

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Preventing grooming and abuse advice child abuse child abuse prevention child protection child safety children grooming parenting parents Nov 09, 2023
Preventing and protecting your child from abuse is not as hard as it might seem? In fact it's actually quite simple.
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In my experience, talking with kids about their abuse as a Specialist Child Interviewer in then Police gave me a unique perspective of how abusers gain access and compliance
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Halloween Safety Tips for busy parents child safety parenting parents stranger danger teens tweens Oct 31, 2023

Whether you believe in this very interesting tradition or not... it is very likely your children may be wanting to go 'trick or treating' tonight.

As a child of the 80's, we didn't have this tradition and as an ex-police officer and child abuse detective, it sets off all sorts of alarm bells in my ...

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Why does our mental health matter when it comes to protecting your child from abuse? advice child abuse prevention child protection child safety mental health online safety parenting Oct 10, 2023
It’s Mental Health week…
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So why does our mental health matter when it comes to protecting our child from abuse?
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When we aren’t coping or we are in crisis, our kids are inadvertently exposed and at risk.
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It’s imperative that as parents we prioritise our mental
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A note for myself about parenting advice parenting Oct 05, 2023
I talk about parenting my daughter in my book, I talk about her on my podcast, I share little anecdotes and stories about my parenting journey when I talk one-on-one with people but the one thing I haven’t been sharing with you is how fucking hard I struggle day-to-day with parenting.
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What to do if... your child sees illegal content online? child abuse children illegal content inappropriate content online safety pornography teens tweens what to do if Jul 16, 2023

TRIGGER WARNING - THIS BLOG POST CONTAINS THE DISCUSSION OF CHILD ABUSE MATERIAL!Ā 

I had a young person contact me yesterday asking for HELP.Ā 

The young person had been shared a link to a website in which they were pressured to open and look at on insistence from 'friends'.Ā 

The website contained...

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Stranger Danger - how we can keep them safe but NOT scared! advice child abuse child protection child safety children parents stranger danger teens tweens Jul 16, 2023

After my Sunrise interview this morning which just touched on some of the basics of child safety, I wanted to share with parents, more in-depth advice on how to help keep your kids safe but NOT scared when talking about things like Stranger Danger.Ā 

In my experience, compared to reported child sexual...

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Consent - is not a dirty word child abuse child protection grooming Jul 16, 2023

I don't think parents and caregivers understand just how vitally important and necessary, consent education is for our children and teenagers and that unless you have been taught consent, it's not something everyone intrinsically understands or respects properly.Ā 

In my experience, many sexual assa...

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5 things you should discuss before your child gets a phone child protection cyberbullying online grooming online safety May 27, 2023

A lot of parents haven't considered the potential implications that a phone or device can have on your child's safety and development before they are gifted or given one.Ā 

Not because they don't care about those issues but more so because the things that may or may not effect a child's safety are n...

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